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Complaining


 

We all go through life situations which affects us adversely and also hits you where your own spirits find you to be down. This is the moment we have to become aware of situations, and events that makes us complain. It is the most devastating thing one gains as a point that slowly keeps eating away your inner spirit, confidence, alertness and capabilities.

The beginning of this complaint happens when people wait for something to happen to them before they can begin inner searching. They feel that some Divinely voice will warn them for they are special or someone who is capable and more wise to tell them to get started. They will even go to the extent of procrastinating an event in the hope that in coming days one will gain enough conviction, confidence and determination to make a thing work. This is reality is the base for the complaint that one begins with, for it has its foundation in the non-acceptance of what it is.

Every single moment of time if one holds back and see’s the past one will find people who’s drifted in and out of your life is a part of your divinely chosen experience. If those people who drifted out of your life are more in comparison to the people who drifted in then it shows the weak foundation one is standing on. If on the other hand the number of people who drifted out are less or equal to the number of people who drifted in, it again shows the level of acceptance your own conviction has.  One has to be thankful for all of these people, and take serious note of what they brought you. The greatest lessons in life  is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. One need not resist them one only needs acceptance of the reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like for they in themselves are showing the mold in which you as an individual is forming.

Those who can never accept the reality are continuously charging the environment of the mold with negative energy. This in turn brings in more and more negativity in the approach to even the most simple events in life. Complaining makes truly makes an individual a victim of the situation. The more one becomes a victim one spreads the aura of victimization around and each viral spread of such victimization firstly brings in sympathy then it becomes empathy. It is the most devastating state of the body, mind and spirit wherein it can collapse the whole grounding of your own self leaving you nothing more than a active contagious carcass of negativity. More and more one lives in such a situation more and more the negativity spreads. The best option for such a scenario is to leave the situation.

It is not easy for one to drop of everything and letting go of little will never help. One has to make firm choice from within for no one can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

The start is to begin with a mind that firmly holds on the concept of “letting go”. All that you initialized earlier will never happen here for you have to beginning with “Letting Go”, let it go a little and you will find a little peace and space in mind for allowing new things to be in place. As you move on this new start your force of “Letting Go” will increase drastically allowing you to have more peace and space for creative mind to function. Your struggles with the world will have come to an end for You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want and you will find it attained.

~Maitreya

 

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