Laughing away the problems does not solve them. They only get postponed to another time and dimension where others may enjoy and you may cry out loud with nothing in hand or soul to live for.
Life is not a bed of roses and it is not easy to establish the links lost in a day or two. Friendship is pure till the time it merges with life. A lifeless one is nothing but a burden to carry.
Cruel it may sound but to live the life of a human, you have to burn away the mask of innocence to show your gritty teeth to life like a tiger that has no qualms about killing. Its paws mercilessly tear away the meat revealing the gleaming bones you shudder to see.
Reaching a path of life with no pain in the heart is like living inside a corpse, where the body has no soul or ego. Friendship, relatives, love, sadness and agony are nothing but phases which come and go. With time, trauma becomes something that you suffer, which tears away a piece of your heart like it was never there. Sympathy is nothing more than words, like stomach without food or body without life.